I had read the book Love Me Tender when it came out, and it really moved me. It shed light on and said new things about motherhood, at a time when I was also asking myself questions about my identity as a mother, a woman, and a writer. A little over a year later, I was approached by producers to do an adaptation. It took several months before I put pen to paper, during which I met with Constance and we felt sure about it, she and I. — Anna Cazenave Cambet
In 2015, Constance Debré jettisoned a husband and her job in Paris as a criminal defense attorney. Applying the expressive techniques of her former career to a prose style remarkable for its efficient, almost clinical precision, she started writing. Eventually leaving her belongings on the street and moving into a 100 square foot room, she downsized with brutal efficiency as well. Within a few years, she published Playboy (2018), followed two years later by Love Me Tender, and then Nom (2022). Described by the author as novels, she adds: Everything is true. The main character is made out of me. And the events are representations of true events. But it’s not at all a memoir. It’s not about me. The difference is that there is a form.
And now there is another form—cinema. This week at The American French Film Festival 2025, writer-director Anna Cazenave Cambet presents the North American Premiere of Love Me Tender. If Playboy describes two relationships—the first with an older woman, the second with a younger one—undertaken while Debré’s marriage was ending, Love Me Tender portrays a much more undomesticated lesbian, seemingly more devoted to the act itself than to any individual trick or partner. Between assignations, the first-person narrator recounts the tortuous legal battle with her ex over the custody of their son.
Sometimes I can’t remember his face, nor his voice. I wonder whether he’s grown up, what he’s like. It occurred to me when I went over to Apollonia’s the other day, when I saw her sons. It’s crazy how much they’ve grown in a year. I thought of Paul and how much he must have changed, too. Two Christmases, one of his birthdays, one Mother’s Day, two of my birthdays. And all of the days in between. — Love Me Tender
For her adaptation, Cambet has cast the great Vicky Krieps as the protagonist and given her the name “Clémence.” Viggo Ferreira-Redier plays her son, Paul, and Antoine Reinartz plays his father. Join the filmmaker for a Q & A after the screening. See info and links below for details.
LOVE ME TENDER
Written and directed by Anna Cazenave Cambet
The American French Film Festival
Wednesday, October 29, at 8:35 pm
Q & A with the director following the screening
Directors Guild of America
7920 Sunset Boulevard, Los Angeles
theamericanfrenchfilmfestival.org/love-me-tender
LOVE ME TENDER will also screen at USC on Thursday afternoon, October 30.
For free reservations, see:
Cambet quotation: Tarik Khaldi, “Love Me Tender, as seen by Anna Cazenave Cambet,” Festival de Cannes website, May 20, 2025.
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Debré interview: Sammy Loren, “‘I Hate Books for the Happy Few’: An Interview with Love Me Tender Author Contance Debré,” Autre, January 18, 2023.
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Love Me Tender section: Constance Debré, Love Me Tender, trans. Holly James (South Pasadena, CA: Semiotext(e), 2022), 76. First published in French as Love me tender (Paris: Flammarion, 2020). Copyright © Constance Debré, Flammarion, 2020, and Semiotext(e), 2022.
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Anna Cazenave Cambet, Love Me Tender (2025), from top: Vicky Krieps (left); Viggo Ferreira-Redier and Krieps; Love Me Tender North American poster; Antoine Reinartz and Krieps.
Film stills courtesy and © Be For Films.
